Back10 Reasons Why It’s Awesome Being Single
So you’re single. Are you feeling sad, empty and unwanted? Do you find yourself questioning why - out of 7 billion people in the world - you have to fight tooth and nail just to find a partner yet still couldn’t find any?
Don’t fret just because the rest of your friends are pairing up while you’re spending Friday nights all alone sprawled on the couch in your pyjamas, watching pathetic reality shows on TV, wallowing in self-pity about how unfair life is to you. Look at the bright side! There’s absolutely tons of reasons why being single isn’t so bad after all.
Reason No.1: You can party anytime you want!
Even stay until broad daylight. No one will keep an eye on how you behave. No one will nag you to go home early. You can shamelessly grind your hips on whoever you want without some jealous eyes boring a hole into your head.
Reason No.2: You can guiltlessly enjoy ladies’ night.
Every woman in a relationship knows how it feels to be constantly pestered by her man whenever she goes out with her girl-friends unless they’re lucky enough to have a guy who actually understands the meaning of the word ‘respect’. Isn’t it liberating to know you don’t have this kind of dilemma?
Reason No.3: You have the money all to yourself.
Shop all you want! No one’s going to complain about how much you’re spending. If not, save all you want! You don’t have to spend on some Valentine’s Day or anniversary present for anyone anyway.
Reason No.4: You can have wild, passionate and guilt-free sex with any guy you fancy.
Come to think of it - you would not have to be responsible for a broken relationship and a shattered heart because you slept with someone. You can absolutely go home with some random guy you met at a party without the nagging feeling of guilt and shame! (Friendly reminder: Still, be responsible!)
Reason No.5: You don’t have to explain your relationship with your guy friends.
I’m not talking about guys in general but most of them are not comfortable with another guy being close with their girl even if they’re just friends. When you’re single, you don’t have to feel like you’re walking on eggshells when you’re hanging out with your friends. Go out and have a beer with your buddies. You can be yourself and feel free to give out bear hugs to all the boys without anyone thinking you’re crossing the line.
Reason No.6: You can have your way with all the sex toys known to man!
Who says you can’t have your much needed sexual release because you don’t have a man warming up your bed sheets? In fact, you can achieve different kinds of orgasms with different kinds of toys that specialise in different kinds of erotic pleasure! There’s surely a lot of choices!
Reason No.7: You get to have the entire bed all to yourself.
Hog the covers all you want. Who cares if you sleep like you’re being chased by a herd of zombies with your limbs flying all over the place the entire night? No one will complain that you ‘literally’ kicked them out of bed last night or that they woke up with a black eye and bruised ribs.
Reason No.8: You’re not tied down to anyone.
Go out with friends all you want. Party and go home in the morning all you want. Spend your money all you want. Eat all you want. Flirt all you want. Have sex all you want. Date whoever you want. You don’t answer to anybody. YOU. ARE. FREE.
Reason No.9: You can go on vacation in an instant.
You don’t have anyone to tell you you can’t. Make hasty plans for the holidays or go on a spontaneous road trip across the country with your friends. You can even go on a soul searching journey to India all by yourself if you’re up for it. No one will ask you where you are, who you’re with and what you’re doing.
Reason No.10: You have all the time in the world to find Mr. Right.
Be thankful. You’re better off being single than finding yourself getting caught up in the wrong kind of relationship. You’re free to make choices ---mistakes even. Live your life. Do what you want. Get to know yourself more. Explore the world and take on adventures while you can. Most of all, love yourself. So when that special person finally decides to make an appearance, you can certainly give him your all.
Til next time, many happy dreams & may your sex toys be always fully charged :) Ms Cherry xoxo